My life experience is almost identical to @socrates63. From my father buying me a VIC-20 and considering it mostly a toy, to his realization that maybe it wasn't when I ended up at various user group meetings with adults, to ending up with an engineering degree and making a career out of it.
Also, both of my kids were heavily into video games (and I was right there with them for the most part). Older son is now a CPA and still gaming. Younger is a senior in college and still gaming.
Mostly, it is important to stay as well-rounded as you can. There are social aspects to video gaming. When I was young, there were always other kids over (or me at their house) playing together. And in my kids' experience, it's similar (but only with old retro systems). On-line gaming is a different beast IMO, as there are a lot of creeps out there. It's not easy with the pandemic, as with most things.
We can start up a weekly chat on these forums if you think that would help. It's more "live" than just posting.